About Me

First of all, welcome!

Hey everyone,

This is my 'official' review website :D

In short: 23yo |transmasc & on T | Chinese | non-op & will remain so unless I change my thoughts on that!

Oh, and I'm the one behind that master list of cool trans related shops ;)

tag says:

I love my penis lol

Now, for a lengthier answer on who I am as a queer person

I'm a Chinese transmasc person and use he/him pronouns. I'm almost 2 years on testosterone. For now, I do not feel the need to undergo any surgeries. I feel comfortable enough in the body I have now, though I'll admit it's not an easy task to love myself like that. It takes work, effort and incredible persistence and self-confidence. I have a difficult relationship with my chest. Although I wish for it to be a lot flatter, I'm also very used to the way it looks now. For me, it's just... there, whether I like it or not. I want to move past the definition of a traditional (cis) masculine body. I give it my own meaning, expand on it. And for me that means, there are masc people who have boobs. And we're valid too. That's why I will sometimes post pictures of myself shirtless, as an act of self-love, appreciation and validation. And hopefully, it will validate others like me as well. Maybe it can also be a validation for people who do want to have top surgery but are not there yet: the body you have now is also valid and okay, even if you may not feel at home in it yet.

Now, if you know me IRL that's probably a bit awkward.

Knowing I post rather intimate, even a little bit private things on here. But on the other hand, I shouldn't be so ashamed about it.

This site and my Instagram/Youtube are for the trans and queer community. But I hope that questioning people also find this a useful place! These accounts/profiles have educational purposes, clothed in a (hopefully) casual, informal way.

With my reviews and photos, I hope to help other people like me choose a product that fits their needs. As many will know, these products aren't the cheapest things, so getting something that works for you, is an expensive and important purchase!

Besides the reviews, I hope I can give others a form of validation and representation.